Tag: people pleasing
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Stop Overgiving: Set A Standard You Can Actually Maintain
“People think changing means you stopped caring. Sometimes changing simply means you finally started caring about yourself.” One thing I’ve learned throughout my life is that the way you show up for people teaches them what to expect from you. Not because people are intentionally taking advantage of you. Not because everyone around you has…
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You Are Going To Be The Villain In Someone’s Story Anyway… So Stop Trying To Please Everyone
People-pleasing is just self-neglect disguised as kindness Somewhere along the way, a lot of us were taught that being a “good person” meant constantly showing up for everyone else. Always saying yes.Always being available.Always making sure nobody is upset with us.Always putting ourselves last. But here’s something I need you to understand. You are going…