Is Your Desire For Companionship Stronger Than Your Self-Worth?

You keep asking for certain qualities in others… but have you built them within yourself first?

Is your desire for companionship stronger than your self worth?

Yeah… you read that right.

No, really though.

Because I understand wanting love and wanting to be loved… but do you love yourself?

How can anyone truly value you if you don’t value you?

And everything you ask for… do you embody it?

You want consistency. Loyalty. Honesty. Reciprocation. Fulfillment. Happiness. Adventure. Someone who spoils you.

Okay.

But are you living that life right now?

How can you expect someone to be dedicated to you when you aren’t dedicated to your own daily goals?

Are you consistent with the promises you make to yourself?

Are you showing up for yourself the same way you expect others to show up for you?

You want honesty… but are you living honestly?

Who you are in public, does that align with who you are when nobody is watching?

You want adventure. You want to travel the world and experience life.

So tell me…

Why wait?

No seriously.

Whyyyy wait?

Siri, play Why Wait by The Cheetah Girls lol.

I say this all the time when people ask me about solo traveling.

Everything I want in a partner, I strive to cultivate within myself first.

And if you’re not at the comfort level of traveling alone or doing things by yourself yet, trust me, I get it.

There are baby steps to all of this. And if learning how to simply enjoy your own presence is something you’re still navigating, I actually wrote more about that in Becoming Comfortable In Your Own Presence… I’ll leave it linked here for you.

Because at the end of the day, all of this takes time

Rome wasn’t built in one day.

But here’s another thing.

We are all mirrors of one another.

I want you to think about past relationships.

Romantic relationships.

Friendships.

Situationships.

Any connection.

Ask yourself:

What was it about this person that I deeply disliked… and why?

What was it about this person that I loved… and why?

Then look inward.

Did any of those same traits exist within you?

Because I guarantee… you’re going to notice some synchronicities.

And that’s why self love and self worth both begin with one thing.

Self.

At the end of the day, all you are ever guaranteed to have is yourself.

So pour into yourself accordingly.

Because the energy you cultivate internally is the energy you attract externally.

It’s all frequency.

It’s all vibration.

So if you’re in a season of singleness…

Or even if you’re not single…

This still applies.

Always choose yourself first.

Do not lose yourself searching for something or someone when everything you need already exists within you.

(As corny as that sounds…)

It’s true.

The moment you start genuinely pouring into yourself…

Doing what lights you up.

Prioritizing your happiness.

Choosing your peace.

Everything meant for you begins moving toward you, too.

Affirm it.

Everything I want, wants me.

And so it is, baby.

There is something so beautiful about becoming your own best friend.

Being your own biggest fan.

Learning how to genuinely enjoy your own company.

And when you fully embody that energy…

Whatever you’re calling in will have no choice but to find you.

So remember your worth.

Just by existing, you are worthy.

And everything you desire…

Desires you too.

It wouldn’t live in your consciousness if it wasn’t meant to exist somewhere within your path.

Move with confidence.

Move with knowing.

Trust that everything is unfolding exactly how it needs to.

Let go.

Trust the divine.

Whew…

Dang, that was good girl.

I’m taking this message in too, y’all.

I’m not talking above you.

I’m talking with you.

These are things I know… but sometimes writing it out and hearing it aloud is the reminder I need too.

Tell me in the comments.

What are some things you do daily to remind yourself of your worth?

What practices help you show yourself love?

And side note…

I’ve definitely been posting way more lately because I’m finally feeling more comfortable just writing exactly what I want.

Don’t get me wrong, my earlier blogs were still very much me.

But I’m happy I gave myself space because I genuinely feel aligned right now.

I feel in tune with what I actually want to share with you guys.

And I think moving forward… that’s exactly what I’m going to keep doing.

Anyway.

Until next time.

Much love. ♡

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